gaining attention.

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Have you ever wondered why a million pair of eyes is glued on the newest reality show, "America's Sexiest People"? All over the globe, millions of people are giving so much attention to the beautiful blondes clad in little pathetic triangles of cloth and string, sashaying across the screen in an impressive manner. How do these blondes gain such attention? Is it because of the exposure of their flawless skin? Nope, I do not think so. It is probably because these hot girls project a sense of confidence. And this is essentially the crux of my essay. The first critical key to gaining attention is simply to have confidence in yourself. Do not be influenced by others or any comments. Trust yourself. Believe that you have the ability to accomplish any task, despite its complexity or difficulty. Love yourself <3. Appreciate your own merits and make good use of them. This result in an increase in your own confidence level and most probably would get you more attention. chanel handbags With confidence, a mystery force, aka the X-factor, is born. What exactly constitutes the X-factor? What are the effects of X-factor? In layman terms, X-factor is a combination of confidence, self-respect and a sense of control of your own environment which makes an individual very attractive. Individuals with X-factor could make any person turn heads just to catch another glimpse of him. (Example: memoirs of a geisha. chiyo managed to attract the attention of the poor cyclist.) Apart from mere confidence, one must be respected to gain attention. Golden Rule: To gain respect, you must first respect others. The only deviation that I can think is that you must be an authority in a particular field. If a Harvard economist professor comes to hcjc to lecture, I would certainly give him my 100% attention. However from that exceptional case, we generally need to respect others before others respect you. Respect is not telling people that you are writing a useless long piece of class blog. Respect is not telling people that you are embarrassing the class by wrongfully posting entries. Respect is showing regard and sensitivity for something. Without respect, it would be awfully rare that you gain respect or any forms of attention. After writing so many words, am I getting your attention?