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Saturday, May 06, 2006

i could have been mapling. or even better, i could have been blogging at my own blog abt guitar concert, co bbq, artemis fac outing, string concert, co/guitar elections. but i feel this really rides priority over the rest. cos of my belief in friendship.

ok... let's all calm down and think abt it carefully la. im sure ppl have their reasons and opinions thats for sure. but why not let me just lay out both sides of the argument and we can see how this is happening.

some ppl feel that the class is being split into cliques and therefore daoing the class and everything, mainly cos of couples forming in the class(quoting). and the class is getting too caught up in their individual stuff and starting to ignore the class activities. all these celebrating bdae stuff are going away. the class spirit is starting to leave us.

other ppl feel that the class is ok the way it is, and even if it's not being so ideal, there shouldnt be any particular ppl to blame. i mean... when the couple clique goes out, they are still part of the class right? why is that a form of isolating themselves? so does it mean when ppl go play pool, LAN or WoW at home, they are isolating themselves too? the reason doesnt really stand.

ok im starting to be a bit judgemental here. it's hard not to. i will tend to agree with lim yuan that seriously. the class is not isolating themselves cos of couples or anything. its the fact that there are cliques in the first place. now we are looking at it that couples are the cause and reason. then if we looking in another angle, how abt the table soccer gang? or the mafia? or the geoggers. are they all not part of the grp of cliques as well?

so seriously, it's everyone that has to take a part in bringing our class spirit back. i dont think commitments is that major. look at me, i got 3 ccas and yes, i do face problems cos of that. but i dont think i dont go out with the rest of the class at all or anything. i still try to go if i can. how abt those ppl who chiong home to mug, or just simply dont care and stone at home with games? everyone is guilty of that every now and then, im sure de. even i am.

kwang guan is not wrong though. although lim yuan and him seems to be going against viewpoints. im sure both feel that more can be done abt the class spirit. but hey, dont blame it on the welfare rep for everything k? she's not superwoman or anything. let's all help her if we can and come out with class activities! initiate mahs. a movie, shopping, even a meal. anything will do. wads so tough abt it. louis vuitton handbags yes definitely many things cannot involve the whole class, but if u have so many activities, im sure everyone will get to go for some at least. in any way, it will surely help.

ok.. now on this more touchy part abt laoda's bdae and everything. i wasnt actually there, just hear from ppl, so do correct me if my info is wrong. in any case, im sure yx didnt mean it seriously or wad. why not think in her shoes, she'll feel that there's a cake and many presents for laoda, but she didnt even get a bdae song or anything. furthermore, it was cheejia's bdae on the same day. how many times are there 2 ppl from the same class having the same bdae? but we didnt do anything abt it and celebrate or anything. it's kinda like a 2v1 feeling, and yet 1>2. mathematically, it's not logical right? how abt socially? so it's no wonder she might be a bit upset. thats wad i feel la. so dont blame or anything k?

let's pass this period quickly and get on with life. towards a 6D with more class spirit, more fun and more togetherness ok? and celebrate bdaes! they are nice. sorry, love to AA when ppl look at our class bench when we sing bdae song haha =).

Kelvin posted at 8:44 pm